could steve being incapable of discerning what tony means (even when tony isn’t doing that Obfuscate As Self Defense thing) be the reason why he hasnt slept with tony yet? like tony really could say “steve i want to have sex with you” and steve would be like “there goes iron man being cryptic and sending mixed messages again! surely he meant something else! how could he be attracted to me, after alll? i have to ask natasha about him, he’s so confusing sometimes!”