āSo, is this a kind of āSpies Like Usā situation?ā
āFirst of all, I resent that. Second, this is actually serious and if I so much as breathe a whiff of a Goldfinger monologue-ist Iām calling your babysitter.ā
āOkay, Okay, I get it! āBe cool, Sodapopā.ā
āā¦Jesus, kid, we really need to update your movie collection.ā
There are so many layers of pop culture references in this post I canāt even.Ā
So. I gotta say this first. I am seeing all this talk floating around about Tony beingĀ āconfirmed biā and how great that is, and I get it. I really do. Iām queer. I get that representation is important. I get that you want your fave to be like you. I know. I want that too. But thisā this isnāt it. This isnāt confirmation. In context, Tony set his dating profile as him being interested in men and women so that he could easily message everyone on the site and DDoS the servers. He then apologized to everyone for not being actually available to date them. That he would actually be interested in dating them is only anĀ implication.Ā Am I happy about it? Yes, of course I am. It pleases me. As I was saying, itās a step up from the Evil Bisexual Stereotype of Superior Iron Manās bisexual orgies and that one panel from the earlyĀ ā90s where he faked his death and the news was reporting that heād been HIV-positive. Twenty years ago we clearly wouldnāt have gotten even this much. This is how long I have been in fandom, and if you think weāre hungry for representation now, we were hungrier then. (At one point in my life I could probably have composed a lovingly-footnoted essay of all the times Ray Kowalski on Due South described something asĀ āqueer.ā I probably did.)
But this is absolutely deniable. Honestly, I think that the most likely stance is that literally nothing is going to come of this. They donāt even have to deny it, unless people press them for an explanation. They donāt have to deny it because, when it comes down to it, nothing really happened. Tony never said he was bi. Thereās nothing to take back. And they donāt want to do anything that could upset the straight fanboys of the world because thatās who theyāre thinking buys all the Iron Man comics.
Do I think Marvel could actually make Tony bi at some point ever? Yeah, sure. But this isnāt it. Theyād have to do something undeniable. And we know what that looks like because weāve seen them do it. Undeniable is Rictor and Shatterstar kissing, and then dating (and then breaking up, and then dating again). Undeniable is teen Jean Grey outing teen Bobby Drake to himself, and then the both of them confronting adult Bobby Drake about why he decided to spend his life in the closet, and then Bobby having an entire series of his own where he comes out to his friends and his family and tries to find love. With a guy. Because he likes guys. Thereās no taking that back. And they could do it for Tony. They donāt even have to do as much as that! They could just make Tony say heās not straight. But they didnāt even do that. We donāt have proof. We have hints. Theyāre nice hints, theyāre definitely better than the previous hints, and they do make me very happy ā but theyāre not confirmation.
As for what you actually asked ā any canon basis to think that Steve is something other than straight ā the answer is also going to be that there is very little of it. Less than for Tony, certainly.
The one panel that shows up, out of context, on most of these lists is a panel from Avengers v3 #77. The context is that Clint has decided that Steve has problems getting a date and has decided to help him by discussing what he perceives as the flaws of his dating approach, in true Clint fashion:
It is usually not presented in context, but the next thing Steve says when we see their conversation continue is this:
You have probably seen that panel. Their conversation continues on from that:
I get that that one line out of context sure looks promising and thatās why it appears onĀ āproof that Steve is bisexualā lists ā but Clint then goes on, and man, if Steve were actually interested in men, now would be a good time to say it, because Clint even brings it up and gives Steve time to say something about it as he dismisses the idea. But Steve just says heās happy on his own. I mean, yes, itās a fun line, I can acknowledge that, but⦠yeah. In context it just comes across as,Ā āClint, stop it.ā
Everything else I can think of isnāt specific lines so much as the acknowledgement that Steve had an awful lot of gay friends and teammates over the years and has been very, very accepting of them. As we all know, Arnie Roth, introduced as Steveās childhood best friend in the early 80s (Cap #270-279 is the main arc, but he comes in a little earlier) is gay, as gay as they could get away with while not being allowed to say the wordĀ āgay,ā and Steve is happy to see him again and incredibly, incredibly supportive of Arnieās relationship with hisĀ āroommateā Michael, to the point where he is comparing their relationship to the feelings he and Bernie Rosenthal have for each other. So thatās⦠nice.
Steve has also served with a bunch of characters who were gay to various degrees in WWII. Brian Falsworth (Union Jack) and Roger Aubrey (Destroyer) were both on the Invaders, but the canonical situation is complicated; the Invaders are a slightly later retcon into Steveās history, as the Invaders comic was set in the 40s but published in the 70s. Brian and Roger werenāt explicitly written as gay at the time, but a later writer decided that there was an issue of Invaders in which they seemed to have a certain subtext and then retconned them into being gay in an obscure Citizen V miniseries, which I vaguely recall hearing pissed off the original writer. (I havenāt read either; when I was diving through Invaders canon the second volume wasnāt on Unlimited and neither was Citizen V, and I havenāt checked again.) So I donāt know that Steve has ever acknowledged it on-page, but we can piece together that two of his Invaders teammates were gay.)
(Also, Percival Pinkerton of Furyās Howling Commandos is gay by word of Stan Lee, last I checked, and Iām pretty sure Steveās met him.)
So none of that is really proof of any sort because, I mean, youād expect Captain America to be totally fine with his gay friends and teammates, but itās nice that they exist and thereās surprisingly more of them than youād think a guy would have in the 40s. Than Iād think, anyway.
Thereās also that panel of Nextwave. You know. That panel. Of Nextwave. Where Monica Rambeau and Elsa Bloodstone are discussing the Avengers.
But, I mean. Itās Nextwave. Iām not even sure anything in Nextwave is canon. I love Nextwave, though.
Other than that, I guess, is just the usual reasons that we ship Steve with all the guys we ship him with, which is that many of his friendships get very⦠intense. Like, I can definitely see where you could write some Sam/Steve. And, uh, we all know there are a lot of reasons to ship Steve/Tony. And technically Hydra Steve declared real Steveās love for Tony, so, you know⦠thatās a thing that happened.